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In the past I have alluded to ‘woman’ problems I have had, but allude I will no more!
So if you are of a weak disposition, or don’t want to read about that ‘sort’ of thing, when you actually came here to read about or see;
a. Gingerbread men recipe
b. look at pretty pictures
c. hear about my lovely children
if any of those are you, look away now!
So are you ready??
Lets go…
I will start at the beginning, when I was pregnant with William (7 years ago), I had Thrush for the first time, and was told it was hormonal, which it was to be honest, it was treated, and went away.
After having William I had the copper coil fitted, and since then I have suffered with Thrush, ranging from the slightly annoying, to unbelievably painful, so bad one time I could barely move. There is another thing as well, just about to get to that!
Now rushing to forward through time and to now, well 6 weeks ago actually.
You are meant to have your coil changed every 5 years, well last year came and went and I forgot, and I forgot to get my smear done as well, but I knew it had to be done, so I booked myself in, joy of joys!
While talking to the nurse doing the smear I said that I had had suffered from bleeding after intercourse (I thought I would use the technical term!) and she noted this down, and said I should mention this when I saw the doctor about the coil, so I wasn’t worried, I mean it had been happening for at least 18 months, and it couldn’t be that bad.
Saw the doctor, I explained about the bleeding, she had a look, said it looked inflamed, took a swab, and then said I would have to go up to the Hospital to be looked at by a Gynecologist, when she was saying all of this, it was very matter of fact, not great bedside manner!
She then when on the say that it could be that I had ‘damaged’ cells around my cervix, and no more explanation. When she said this, to me, it meant one thing, cancer, and I went home to worry and worry a bit more.
The next day I had more bleeding, rang the doctors, now really quite worried about all of this.
We have a certain doctor at our surgery who is lovely, she always puts me at ease, and I feel very confident with her, thankfully it was her I spoke to while in a blind panic!
She explained that the swab had come back showing an infection of Thrush, and that the whole bleeding thing, was not that unusual, and they are now told to send anyone suffering up to the hospital! Why didn’t the one the day before say this!!!
Now calm again!
Smear test come back, all clear, calmer again : )
Another letter arrives, saying that I have Antinomyces-like organisms showing up on the smear test, this is often seen in someone who has a coil fitted, symptoms of pain, discharge etc, hmmmmm, see a link here? So another thing!
Appointment letter for Gynecologist arrives yesterday, appointment today!
Off I go, a bit unsure, but ok.
I see the most lovely man, so nice, calm, didn’t talk to me like I was some twittering idiot, I then explain what is happening, he reads my notes, and he says that he believes I have Cervical Erosion.
This is a non-cancerous erosion of cells at the neck of your cervix can lead to bleeding between periods and after sex.
He goes on to tell me that this is not unusual in women who have had at least one child, and after having children the lining of the cervix can start to sort of grow out through the entrance of the cervix. It can also be caused by other things like the pill, and stuff.
But the reason why it happens isn’t really that important, you either have it, or not!
So he thinks I have this, when this exists the cells that should be in the cervix have sneaked out, they are more like the cells that line your mouth, quite delicate and easily damaged, so that is why they bleed after intercourse.
Also the cells produce more mucus to protect themselves, and because of the ph balance, do you see where I’m going with this!
So! To cut a long story short, he has a look with a camera, and I watch too, and he is right, I can see the cells and they are all inflamed, and all the extra mucus as well, I hope you aren’t eating while reading this!
So he takes a little bit to do a biopsy of, standard practice, and tells me that he will book me in to have my coil removed, and the erosion treated by cauterizing it! They do this using some local anesthetic, and then the normal skin around the entrance will grow back, and no more bleeding and yukky discharge!
Now you may be wondering why I have written this, put you off you tea, made you never want to read my blog again, but my point for doing this is this,
I would never have gone to the doctor to have talk about this, it was sort of by chance, just because I was there about a related matter.
If I hadn’t said anything, the bleeding would have continued, until I have got really worried about it, and become paranoid that I had cancer.
So what I’m saying is, don’t just worry about it, it could well be this, something I had never heard of, and to be honest, it has all been painless so far, and one less thing to worry about.
Once this has been done and the coil removed I also hope that I will finally be free of all the thrush stuff too.
So don’t just sit there and cross your legs, hope for the best, go see your doctor, remember to get your smear test done, it is better to do it now!
I’m sorry if I have rambled, and talked rubbish, but I wanted to share my experience, as I had no knowledge of this, I promise it will be back to business over the weekend, when I will waffle about the course I’m running instead!!
Thanks for listening : )
12th September 2008 @ 10:01 pm
Thanks for sharing. I had some not so pleasant experiences with doctors ages ago, so find it hard to get myself to see them when I worried about strange symptoms and it usually takes me forever to book smear tests. I had one recently, as I came to same conclusion as you – it is better to see a doctor than end up in total panic.
12th September 2008 @ 10:09 pm
This was a very brave blog post indeed.
Us ladies do have some embarrassing illnesses don’t we. We just need to remember that this is everyday stuff for our doctors, even if it is a little worrying and embarrassing for us.
12th September 2008 @ 11:05 pm
Hooray for an honest and real life post. That is one of the things I love about your blog. Reading about great crafting mixed with real life experiences.
12th September 2008 @ 11:16 pm
i was on the edge of my seat reading that – great to hear a happy ending!
i’ve suffered with a mild erosion of the cervix too – not very nice, but sounds easily remedied.
so was any of it likely caused by the coil being there too long?
soory for the interrogation – LOL.
glad it’s sorted now x
13th September 2008 @ 8:13 am
You go girl! What a great post, I think we all are a bit ‘English’ when it comes to talking about womans problems!
I hope it helps someone out there!
Vanessa x
13th September 2008 @ 9:24 am
It’s all part of being a woman isn’t it. Glad to hear things are getting better now.
13th September 2008 @ 11:23 am
Thank you.
Sometimes it would just make life so much simpler if you have someone to talk to about things that worry you and get advice.
But usually you don’t know who to ask.
Because doctors are often too busy and you feel you’re not important enough to waste their time…
We’ve all been there. So it helps a lot to hear someone tell about having problems and how it can be solved!
Thank you again. I hope you have a nice weekend!
13th September 2008 @ 3:51 pm
Good for you sharing this topic. So many of us put off the YUCK appointments. Cancer of the cervix is not something to be taken lightly so we as mothers (in fact all women) need take the simple precaution of having a smear seriously. I’m glad you are OK.
I must see about having my checkup “down there”. It’s been over two years since my little guy was born and the smear was done early in the pregnancy. I’m overdue.
13th September 2008 @ 5:56 pm
you are so generous to share your story and remind women how important it is to see their gynos regularly. thank you
13th September 2008 @ 7:52 pm
Well done! Great post which I’m sure has been very helpful to more people than me. You are very brave to tackle the problem head on and I’m glad to hear your story had a happy ending.
Hurray for honesty!
14th September 2008 @ 7:28 am
Hooray for honesty!
14th September 2008 @ 7:47 am
I think it is very important that we women speak aloud about ginecologycal problems. Still such a taboe! And further, I sound always crazy to other womena but I do insist on the smear (pap) test… if you relax it is rather painless… and it lasts nothing. But it can help you relax once the results are back.
I would suggest always that whenever you get something (undiagnosed) that is out of the normal, pain or not, go see a doctor. Cancers can grow to big proportions before they start being painful, and “in there” they are less noticeable…
Glad you are doing OK and everything has a solution… and great that you told your story so others can learn from it.
14th September 2008 @ 1:10 pm
Glad it was nothing to worry about – I believe that these things should be talked about so even if it helps one person then it’s well worth it.
19th September 2008 @ 4:22 pm
Glad to hear things are ok. While reading the post it reminded me of the radiologist who calmly told me as he had the vaginal scan probe thing stuck in my, oh your fibroid is quite large isn’t it? This was when I didn’t even know what a fibroid was and didn’t know I had one! A male’s bedside manner when dealing with women’s health leaves a LOT to be desired. For at least half a day I thought I had cancerous growths inside me and rang my gyno is desperation, trying to talk between huge sobs! Now I get an internal scan each year! And your post is a timely reminder to book the next one in.
27th September 2008 @ 7:37 pm
Hello.
I don’t normally leave messages on blogs. But after reading this I wanted to say Thank You.
My friend died 2 weeks ago this coming Monday from Cervical Cancer, leaving behind a loving Husband and 20 Month old baby.
I am utterly in pain, and very sad, but reading what you wrote- to encourage people to go to the Dr’s is brilliant. Thank You.
Best Wishes,
Laura.
29th December 2009 @ 8:22 pm
Thanks for posting this. I have been suffering from recurrent thrush since having my copper coil fitted about 9 months ago and am completely fed up. Was trying to get an appt to have it removed today, but to no avail, will try again tomorrow. I’ve had two babies, so maybe I have the same thing as you. I think I will insist on a referral to a gynaecologist. I’ve had coils in the past, I had thought I’d give it a rest for a few months and then try again, as I can’t use anything hormonal, but wonder if I’m able to have a coil again? Thanks again.